Hello Citan.

The point of bringing it to the forum is obviously that he feels slighted in some way and wants to gain community support against his slight. For reference, I was there for some of the conversation, including what you referenced above. I do have an personal opinion about the level of maturity of Vertabreaker's comment and commentary; also I do acknowledge you have seen a day full of this kind of commentary from him (as did I).

Nevertheless, I'd like to make two points for your consideration.

First, on a human level, attempting to enforce civility isn't really practical or honorable. Attempt this you may, but succeed you will not. Civility is a gift. It ceases to become a gift when it is required behavior.

Second, attempting to control behavior and succeeding actually denies the rest of us the ability to observe the undesirable behavior. In short, we'd like to see who's an asshat so we know who not to interact with.

As an admin, this is your world and you will act according to what you see is best for your game. That's quite fair and expected and I won't debate that issue. I'd simply like you to consider the above two points and think about them when it comes to being an admin/mod.

Thanks for reading.