Seriously considering dropping this game because of the shaming

[Procura]

I have almost 500 hours into this game. Up to now it was my favorite MMORPG ever and I made all my friends into MMOs buy it.

But now I'm starting to regret it.

I'm starting to have a good solo build and to be able to solo dungeons. However, two times in less than a week, someone shamed me on global chat for... killing a boss in a dungeon before them? Calling me a griefer. How is that griefing? The first time the person was waiting for the boss' respawn, I thought he was afk, my mistake, I even apologised, never got an answer. Now I'm in a dungeon, I see a group, I run ahead of them, kill the boss that's a few rooms later, then when they come and see the dead boss, they shame me. Why? Just because I'm solo I don't have the right to kill bosses? I'm not even camping them, I'm just killing, looting and going away.

Is it the etiquette of this game of just going back and to not touch a single monster if some people are already in the dungeon?

This is ridiculous. I like to solo, I like challenging fights, I like to push the limits of the system. Grouping with level 80 characters to do a level 40 quest is not fun for me. And because of that I'm called a griefer?

And it's not even just me. At least once a week I see someone calling out someone else on global chat. At first I tended to ignore it but I now notice it a lot more.

Normally I would just block the people doing that, but the community is so small that I feel like my reputation is gonna be ruined just because I like to solo dungeons. It's not like I follow people and steal their kills at the last minute, or camp and farm bosses. I'm not griefing, I'm just playing. It's not my fault the game locks the loot and that the quest requires an item, I'm not the one who designed the game this way.

What am I supposed to do? Just wait until nobody is around? But then, should I then call griefers the people who kill a boss before me?

I keep seeing people saying how this game has a great community, but now I'm seriously starting to doubt it.

Never mind. Forget it. I uninstalled the game, this is getting too stressful. I play video games to relax and have fun, not to get accusations and people dirtying my name. This community is too small and I'm only around since a few months so I don't feel confident about this. You won, I won't be around anymore to "steal" your kills.